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I’ve been on the swinging scene for a while now.When I meet someone for the first time.I always treat them with respect and expect nothing at all.I treat it like a first date sort of thing. So why do some of you guys think as soon as the lady has replied to you email do you instantly think your going to get laid?

You never seem interested in what her likes or dislikes are. You only seem interested in what you want.To top it all you always seem to be married playing away behind the wifes back.

So I am not surprised your not getting anything at home

Or the guys who will drive over 150 miles just to meet  thinking again they going to get laid and you say its not far to come.

Thats a 300 mile round trip.what idiot is going to drive 300 miles for a coffee in starbucks.This shows you are desperate so you get nowhere.

Then we come to social events.

YES the word is SOCIAL not SEX or ORGY but SOCIAL.

A quick description  for the numb skulls out there a SWINGERS social event  is where swingers meet to have a social evening.Its usually held in a public place  like a pub,restaurant or club. people my travel a bit further for a social and book into a hotel so during the evening they can have a drink and not worry about driving home .At these events  we catch up with friends and make new ones over a drink.its not about sex or playing with others.Often people who are attending  know their friends are going as well.So they might arrange to have some fun afterwards together after the social.This does not mean any one at the social is going to get an invite to join them.

For the single guys this is the place to present yourself as a decent respectfull guy and not a place to pull.If you are chatting to a couple  DO NOT IGNORE the husband. This will kill all chances of a  meet at a later date and DO NOT GO AROUND GRABBING the LADIES.As for talking to single ladies there.Give them space  and do not latch on to the first one you see and follow her around like a lap dog.

For single ladies attending these events  it can be a nervous time for them so again show respect.

NOW guys if you are cheating  behind wifes back  you will be found lies will trip you up and the word will get around the scene and now one will go near you


First Time Swingers

It was a warm August night in South Carolina. My husband Richard and I were going out on the town to unwind from a hectic week at work. As we were walking out of the door the phone rang. Hesitating to answer it, I did. It was my best friend Stacey. She and her husband had an awful fight and she wanted to come and spend the night. I told her that we were about to walk out, but she was more than welcome to come and join us. We waited for her to arrive. When she got there we all left and headed to our favorite bar.

Several hours and several drinks later, we decided that we would head to the house. Upon our arrival home Richard was about to pass out. As soon as we went in the house, he hit the bed and was gone. Stacey and I began talking about how we always wanted to have a threesome together. I proceeded to tell her about Richards big dick and how I wish he would have a threesome with me. Stacey was getting wet as I talked about Richards dick and how good it was. I told her to follow me to the bedroom and I would show her his dick while he is passed out.

We walked into the bedroom knowing that we wouldn’t wake Richard. I pulled the covers back, pulled out his huge fat dick and started to suck on it. He was rock hard in a split second. I was really turned on by the fact that I was sucking my husbands dick and my best friend was watching. I knew it would bring ulimate orgasms to watch her suck him off. I looked at Stacey who was fingering her beautiful blonde pussy. “Do you want to suck it?” I said. “Sure!!!” said Stacey. She started sucking him hard as I laid there and rubbed my pussy, which was soaked by this time. Just then Richards eyes opened and he started to moan from pure pleasure. He said ” oh baby, you are really sucking me good tonight.” Which I replied while laying beside him “No!! its not me baby!” He looked down to discover that it was Stacey sucking his dick.

He laid his head back and took in all the pleasure. Stacey sucked him until he filled her mouth with cum. I said “Fuck her baby!” He threw her over and began to fuck her hard doggie style. I had never been more turned on in my 25 years in this world. ” OH Katie, he feels so good up in me!!” Just then she screams ” I am going to cum all over you!”, he pulled out his dick and stuck it in my mouth.

While I was sucking her cum off of his dick and taking in all of his hot liquid, Stacey started to lick my pussy. This was my first lesbian experience and I dont know that I had ever had my pussy ate sooo good!!

It didnt take long for me to cum all in her mouth. As soon as I did, Richard was there to give me that wonderful dick that I love so much. As he fucked me harder than he ever had before, Stacey began to lick his dick while he was fucking me. It wasnt long before Richard blowed his wad in me.

That was one of the best nights of my life. Stacey comes over about once a month now and we all have a wonderful time. It just gets better!!


Single Moms / Why some husbands leave their wives

“We’re our own worst enemies a lot of the time, but I still blame men.”
– Janeane Garofalo

First of all, I wouldn’t pick on single mothers. Anyone trying to do their best and raise a proper kid is fine by me. It’s a tough job, and the ultimate example of the phrase “Hard work is its own reward.” I have one issue with divorced mothers. I know a lot of women here want to defend themselves as a gender AT ALL COSTS and always blame the men for all marital problems, but there is one cause of divorce that no women want to talk about, much less admit might cause problems in a marriage.

What about marriages that fail because the woman has completely and entirely given up on her feminity? I understand a little baby weight that’s leftover from childbirth, I understand she doesn’t feel like applying make-up and earrings just to buy groceries on a Saturday morning, I understand having sex 4 or 5 times a week is too exhausting. I don’t expect a working mother to dress up all day, every day like she’s headed for the nightclub.

However, what about those women who, once they’ve become mothers, decide they want to resign their womanhood? Women who have absolutely no interest in appearing attractive to anyone. They purposely re-design their appearance to accommodate their own sense of convenience. They chop off all their hair and a get a low-maintainence boy’s haircut. They stop wearing make-up, perfume and jewelry. They only wear running shoes. They buy those absolutely disgusting jeans with the elastic band on them. They don’t even shave their legs. The only remaining pleasure they’re willing to indulge in is food, so their waistline expands over the years without concern for blood pressure or cholesterol levels. They don’t want to exercise, they want to drink coffee all day and blab on the phone with other moms over the intricacies of how-to-read videos.

She’s given up on any catering to her husband. Should he be the primary focus of her life? Of course not, but she will not give any consideration to his needs. He is a chauffeur, a source of income, and her date on national holidays–that’s it. I’m not talking about the 1950s-style husband either, who comes home and drinks scotch and reads the paper while she’s running around cleaning everything. Those days are over. These days, both halves of most couples have to work full-time to keep the family going. Both halves of most couples also have to do house-cleaning, help with homework, and alternate duties in general. One-income families with stay-at-home moms are growing fewer and fewer in number, and women can no longer defend themselves on the grounds that they do more family work than the men do. It still happens, but not nearly as much as it used to.

Women only put effort into their appearance and their relationship when there is competition. A married woman with children figures her husband isn’t going anywhere. He married me, we have children together. She’s through trying to look good for him. Hey, if he’s let himself go as well, then it’s fair game. But a lot of times, the female sexual end of a marriage starts to evaporate before his does.

OK, you’re a married mother who’s still in shape. You still wear make-up and fitting clothes. Once in a while, you and your husband still pop open a bottle of wine at a downtown hotel after sending the kids to your parents’ house for the night. Fine, I’m not talking to you. You are the exception to the rule. Millions of other women are on the opposite end of the spectrum. They’ve decided they’d rather look like a middle-aged lesbian.

Dad gets sick of this shit. Like the mom, Dad doesn’t have so much time to run around with friends. His routine is pretty much composed of family life at home, which he understands and accepts. But, he still wants to have a little fun with his wife now and again. This is impossible to do for two reasons. First, she doesn’t want to have any fun that doesn’t involve the children. Adult pleasures were dispensed of in the delivery room. Second, he can’t have fun with her even if she was willing, because she now has let herself turn into Kathy Bates.

Even Miranda — that megalomaniacal control-freak yuppie on Sex and the City — once properly remarked that “no one wants to fuck mean old Mommy”. Once the kids come, these women completely let themselves go, they no longer see any need to look attractive or pursue any kind of romantic or sexual fun. She no longer wants to be a woman, she justs wants to be a Mom. If you take away from your husband any and all reasons to have sex with you, he will go have sex with someone else, and he will do it to the tune of any monthly alimony payment if he has to. Sooner or later, as much as he loves the kids, the joy the children bring him are nullified by his roommate, who is now someone he used to share a life with who now exsists solely as a mental manager to remind him of what he supposed to do next for everybody else in the house (along with an unwanted running commentary of everything he’s doing wrong).

Many married moms, 10 times out of 10, would rather have a marathon cookie-baking section rather than do something spontaneous or fun with just her husband. OK, 8 out of 10 times is fine, 9 out of 10 times is understandable, but 10 times out of 10 for the kids? Nothing for just you and your husband, or even just for yourself? There are women who are that slavish in their devotion to making sure their children are entertained at all times. But don’t they realize that it will create side effects and eventually repercussions to their marriage?

No, they don’t realize it, and even if they did, they lie to themselves about it. Women repeatedly try to fool and outright lie to themselves with the aid of self-help books, magazine articles and daytime television into believing that sex is not really an important marriage component to their husbands. Generally speaking, a woman will never hesitate lying to herself to maintain the belief that she’s on top of it all. They honestly think (subliminally or consciously) that they can hold a man’s sex life hostage. If a couple has been married more than a decade and she has let herself go as previously described, he has definitely compromised his wedding vows for a little strange (if he’s unattractive, he just goes to a massage parlor or a prostitute — but they all do it).

“Not my husband!” Yes, your husband too.

Once he’s cheated, he’s done so because he considers this a cheap alternative to divorce. He will do his best to make sure she never finds out, either out of love, or out of fear of adultery being brought into the divorce proceedings. The most disciplined of men, those who are planning their escape from sexual Alcatraz while his wife is orchestrating another backyard sleepover, knows why, when and how he is going to bail from his marriage. He waits until the lawyers are done before sending himself into new female company. Women continually fall for this crap, thinking they can get away with having a husband who’s satisfied with a dormant sex life. They’ve been hearing the schemes of men since high school (“I promise I’ll pull out”), and yet they cling on to false hope, believing that their man is different and is going to put up with all her bullshit for the sake of the children. There are a lot of good family men out there, but they all have their limits.

And when these good men break and leave, her defense of her own negligence is that “you don’t understand how I really feel”. As if to imply that if he did understand how she really feels, that he’d rightly throw his own feelings out the window (which is what she’d really like him to do), because Mom is so beleaguered and overwhelmed with all this parenting that she insisted she do all by herself. Women do this to themselves, then they muster up the temerity to blame all their marital problems on their husband. “…and that, my friends, is the end of the story.”

This was found on Craigslists

I’ve been here in the past and guess what the ex wife did to make herself look sexy again after we split  .She got a tattoo of a dagger on her arm.A short while ago I bumped in to an old neighbour of mine when I was with the ex. We where chatting about the ex and the subject came round to sex.she said the ex had said you like wierd sex( the friend was trying not to laff at the time ) and carried on saying the ex said you like to do it doggystyle or with her on top and the ex thought this was wierd.

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