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Swinging the Lifestyle

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Some people cant understand or want to understand what Swinging is all about.I am not looking to preach or convert the Vanillas  of this world as its each to their own. But the swinging life stlye is more open  and less boundries.You will meet people from all levels of society.

A good majority of people into swinging are couples but you also get singles.Why do you ask  well a few couples part of their fantasy is to see the other half with some one esle be that a male or female. Or just to add a 3rd part to the mix to make up a 3-some. Every one could be straight or may  be a mix of straight and Bi  tastes.Everyone is different.If you think you can come up with all the different combinations they your wrong as the mix and tastes are only limited to your own imagination.


So what happens  well I will give you a basic rundown  on how things work.

So if you and your partner have decided to try swinging. Sit down and talk about what your looking for and remember thew golden rule No means No. you are doing it together for fun  so at the end of the night you both are to have fun.if one person is not intrested in the other  then dont go ahead never feel you have to.

You join a swinging site there are a few to choose from

Make contact with someone you like. You will get a few rejections as this is a 2way thing.

Once contact has been made  you can just arrange to meet or discuss things further eihter by Email or MSN which seems popular. More often the first meet is usually a social meet often in a pub or bar  just to see each other face to face and see how you get on.You might all hit is of and either head to a hotel or back you your or their place for sex. Just remember their are 4 of you so if one of you is not happy or intrested  dont go ahead or push it further.Aslo safe sex is a must  so remember the condoms.Often at the end of the night  you will go you seperate ways and discuss wiht each other and contact the other party to either  say No we wont be taking this further.or we would love to meet up again for some fun.

The other way is to go to a swingers club their are a few around. you meet in the bar  chat hit it off and go to one of the play rooms.Most clubs have private play rooms just so the 4 of you can play and they have general rooms  where evey one is in there together. If you are in a general play room  you may be approached by others  but if you say no  they  will  move away its all about good sex and respect.

When you put a profile on a site put up what your looking for and what you like  as well as what you dont like.Have a look at a few profiles to get an idea

As said before you you both want sex then  going to meet a couple whos Husband ony want to sit back and watch  then their are not for you unless your wife is bi and will also play with the lady.

one of the other twists you may come across is a couple who might also play as singles where he/she mihgt meet other singles or couples for fun and sometimes the other half like to hear all the blow by blow details afterwards. Like i said  if you think you know all the combinations  you will come acoss something  you not think of .


If your worried that you might come across someone you know  they will be thinking the same.Well the golden unwritten rule is you dont say anything about it  to them in public.I have actually come across my boss and his wife on the scene  and  we both know about each other and have never said a word  about it. we both know and thats it.

But remember to talk to each other about rules

you might want to play in seperate rooms or all together in the same room. Also be clean  poss shaved or trimmed.Look nice and smell nice.

I have come across one pet hate   alot of people agree one is guys turning up in football tops. Dump the top and tracksuit bottoms put on some pants or smart jeans and shoes  not your old raggy trainers. If your appearance is shoddy  a good chace your sexual perfomance is shoddy/crap as well

one very good tip is finde out what the other persone your going to play with likes and dislikes.If you please them they will please you.Every onbe is different so what works on your partner might not work on someone else

ie pulling your wife hair might be a big turn on for her but could be a turn off for someone else. there is a good chance you mihgt find new things that turn you on as well.

Now Guys just because you think your a stud   3 mins does not make for good sex.You might be satisfied  but at a good guess the lady is not.


Will add more soon



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Tourist sparks ‘mini riot’ at Queensland sex party

A TOURIST who refused to take his clothes off at a swinger sex party has been blamed for sparking “a mini-riot” at a north Queensland nudist colony.

Police were called amid threats of violence and lewd behaviour and ordered the Brisbane man and his wife from the adults-only “anything goes” sex party, reports the Courier Mail.

The White Cockatoo resort at Mossman, near Port Douglas, is promoting swingers and sex parties in a month of hedonism for March in a bid to boost sagging tourism figures.

Once billed as the nation’s top group-sex hotspot for swingers, the resort made international headlines last year when it revealed plans to lift a self-imposed swinger ban.

Owner Tony Fox said the “mini-riot” erupted when four naked female guests protested when confronted by the fully-clothed man.

“They felt uncomfortable with him eyeing them off and I asked him to show some respect and take his clothes off,” said the nudist colony manager. “He then threatened to bash me, there was some argy-bargy and I ordered him off the premises and police were called.”

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Another day


why do we never see this in the bandstand in peoples park


Now I know not every one can take a good pic.But looking at some of the pics of the sites.It makes me wonder if they are looking for sex or a part in the next steven king movie. Now I know some pics are taken in the heat of the moment when your playing and these cant  be set up unless your doing a porn shoot. But if your just taking pics for your profile have a look around and check whats behind the person having the photo taken.

we dont want to see boxes of tampax  or pile cream in the back ground or pics of your kids also if in bedroom or any other room tidy it u first. There is nothing worse  than getting a good pic of the person and the room is a shit tip. Ladies freshen up  nothing worse than a pic that looks like the back end of a bus and guys ditch the football shirt.

Girls with big tits look good in football shirts. Guys with manboobs and beer bellies dont

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I know everyone does not have the ideal body.But you dont need pics that look like you have just survive a car crash or have the hangover from hell



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what a stunning beauty



A very sexy lady indeed I would not kick her out of bed

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swingers whats going on with it all

Been having a bit of an online discussion with a few friends over the past few weeks about the swinging scene.I thought it was just me but others agree with.the swinging scene seems so be going from a sex partner swapping pastime to just a meet up and have a drink  or more often only a chat on msn or email.but hardly and physical contact let alone a blowjob or fuck.

Now you can call me choosy but I do like to meet people who are smart  well dressed and presentable but looking at a few profile as of lateI am begining to wonder what the fuck is going on.shestonsoffunNow I would say my tastes are middle of the road but when I come across something like this.I get worried yes I know some people are in to fat ladies.


I say fat for to me she is not a BBW or a larger lady  she is just plain fat

I do like the lady to get on top doing our bouts of fucking  and I  do like her to fuck me  not squash me to death.

Ok  some people do have problems with weight but most its because they have a hand to mouth problem.Every time the hand reaches the mouth there is food in its hand and this goes for the guys as well


Now when I go to meet someone I do the usual stuff I would normally do each day like have a shower brush my teeth have a shave and make myself smell nice with some dedorant and aftershave.I dont put onthe football top ive had on all week.I getout a clean shirt and pants as well as clean underwear and socks.well I do this every day I dont turn up in scruffy jeans and old last seasons football top and no this seasons top does not impress and I do not turn up sticking of beer because Ive been out on the piss all day wiht my mates watching football in the pub.

I am here to impress and get laid.I know I am not the hunk of the year but I do scrub up well

To me swinger sites are contact site where you make contact with some one .Then you meet up and If all goes well you fuck.Its not for sitting at your pc  wanking on cam for others to see you.If you want that then fuck off to a voyeur site.

Jealousy

Now why the fuck do some people get jealous. I dont care If the lady I had sex with last week meets some one else .This is whats is all about variety.

How many times have you seen in chat rooms or heard from others  so and so has fallen out with so and so because they fucked  them last we and we dont like them . Get over it you sad twat.If they want to fuck some one else  the thats their choice  not YOURS

Reasons to swing

For most people the reason to swing is to have different and varied sex.I have been on the scene long enought now and have come across it a few times and have heard it been said as well that soem people are on the scene because eihter the wife or husband is crap in bed.I know some people play becuase the other half can perform because or other reasons  but thye make it know and are honest about it.I know there are a few couple out there swinging which is a joint choice but the husband is either not aware or  knows he is crap in bed. So the wife is out thier fucking anything with a cock.Now she might be a good fuck  but unles my partner is getting a good fuck from her partner  I am not a happy bunny.Its about all of us getting a good  fuck and not passing your crap in bed hubby or wife on to some one else so you can have a good lay that is plain selfish.Ive you know your crap in bed get some books to read and ask your partner what you can do to improve also if you peartner is any good they should teach you and guys forget your ego ladies like to be fuck so they get enjoyment out of it  not just a cum filled pussy because you only last 3 strokes  it about enjoyment for both of you.just because you have emptied your sack does not mean she has had enough.


So remember swinging is about good sex swapping partners  not passing on some ugly fuck who is a dud fuck





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